22 Things I learned at 22 Years Old (Warning, This is Dark)

1. Nobody cares

No one cares that you cant find a job, or that your anixtey levels has reached its limits and that you think you may have a heart condition now. They don’t care about it so much right now, but they will once your lying in a hospital bed or in your shallow caseket. And thats fine. Because you don’t care that you’re best friend’s son got held back for the 2nd time and wont graduate high school with his class. All it does is just makes for good conversation.

2. Stop Caring

The worst thing that could happen to me in any situtation is one of two things, someone can kidnap me, or someone can kill me. But if I wanted to Wear a wig to my dad’s wedding in the smoldering heat im sure neither of those things would have happened. So next time I won’t think about what other’s are thinking and I’ll do “Whatever the hell I want! (well, to a certain extent). If Jesus isn’t gonna shame me for it then neither will I.

3. Just Do It

Time waits for no man! Procrastin is a mother! like literally, Procrastination’s child is Lazines. In order for procrastination to be born there has to be a ridiclous excuse that you assemble that makes you wait until the following time or day to do it. But for lazines to arrive at your doorstep means that you have  had to come up with an ubsurd reason as to why you shouldn’t do something which will then lead to regret. And in my old age. i sure as hell dont wanna regret anything, so I might as well do it while my heart is still somewhat healthy.

4. Money can buy my happiness

To a young woman who owes a woping 8,368 dollars in health care and student loans, i’d like to say that for me, money can buy me happiness. If i had money i could pay off my debts, buy some land and build my dream house and that would make me hella happy. I could buy my g wagon start my three dream businesses and be happy. But because Money is the root of all evil I’ve subconcincously been afraid of money. Been afraid of making too much because you know, we shouldn’t store up treasures where theives come in and steal. But in my 22 years of living I’ve learned happiness is temporary. which brings me to number 5.

5. Joy is the key to true being at true ease.  and its also the key To be at total peace with myself and my life.

6. leave if you got what you need. wait no scratch that. Thats just a song by Jesse Rutherford but um. Long suffering is good because after all that suffering there is a light at the end of a terd hall. Jesus went through long suffering and made it out alright. I should too.

7. People can be temporay. Anyone can change the moment their lives are greatly impacted and therefore they may not be the person you fell in love with or they might not laugh at the same jokes anymore. Some things are meant to be seasonal and others, a lifetime

8. Turn The Other Cheek.

Who really wants a blood bath? You know I got hands and I know you got hands, there’s no sense in continusley name calling someone in an argument or anything that is tit for tat related. its a waste of time, and things are said and done that will soon be regreted. So just take the L, take the crap that a person is calling you and don’t fight back. You won’t win. Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him.

9. Everyone is not really and truly and completely your friend.

Some people are there for you when they need something but there is no way you would be able to sleep at her house after you and your bf broke up for the thousandth time. If she was really your friend she would have told you that you deserve better.

10. If planned parenthood was actually planned you wouldn’t actually have to go to a clinic called planned parenthood to take care of your arising parenthood because you would have not have or you would have had your man where a condom. They really contradicted themselves because truly if your parenthood was planned you wouldn’t be going into that place to take away your parenthood and an unborn child’s life.

11. There Is a Spirtrual warfare

Some days I would think about things. And then I would think about why I would think about those particular things. And then one day i’d seen a demonic entity sit criscross apple sauce a few inches away from my bed. He was looking at me and i was looking at him but he didnt know i wasw looking at him you know why? Because God played a video of that in my head and showed me what the enemy’s plan was for me and he showed me how I was pleasing him in the path which I were in.

12. Anxiety will make u do  some strange things.

some days I will sit at my computer desk, or sit in the living room, or I’ll even be eating with one hand and the other will be searching my scalp for the biggest moutain of dandruff to peel off. The feeling of when I finally found a good one makes me feel like so fullfilled I do hours upon hours to get that same fufillment. I know. It’s the most disgusting thing I could be a addicted to but its a symptom of anxiety and I’m working on it. Sooner or later I’m just gonna have to buy a dog cone.

13. the truth well set you free

The longer you struggle with taking money from your’s mama’s purse the worse it;ll become. You can say you’re gonna stop and work on yourself but it won’t be truely fixed until you tell the truth and shame the devil.

14. theres something in the water.

15. Hollywood Movies Are Trying To Tell Us Something.

How many movies have we seen about the city of Los Angeles and New York City being destroyed? How many movies have we seen about the government lying to us and doing something disgusting to its people.

16. Write it down

Damn it! what was the number of the woman who wanted her dog walked? I should have written it down! shoot! I’m at the grocery store now, but i can’t remember what I was supossed to get for dinner. dang it! I keep on forgetting to buy midol for my menstrual cramps. that darn Cheyenne.

17. Treat Yo self.

Nothing feels better than purchasing royal blue coffins as nails, skipping leg day, and eating a whole cheese cake with a side of oreo cookies. And lets not forget a long over due online shopping spree. It’s getting cold as a witch’s titty outside and I don’t have any winter clothes?

18. Be yo self

Don’t pretend to like someone just because you feel bad for them or you feel as though it is the right thing to do. And don’t be friends with someone because someone is pressuring you. in the long run you both are going to be hurt and again, will have regreted the time wasted.

19. Jog at least once a day.

excersise, espcially with in the first few hours upon waking up decrease’s your anxitey levels and overall plants the stressless seed for the day.

20. Pray hard

Pray in the good, pray in the bad, pray just to talk to God and you will see a great transforamtion. Just don’t pray and worry. And make sure you listen after you pray.

21. Be 100% real

Not just with other ppl, but yourself. If you don’t want to do something but you’re scared its gonna hurt them.. chances are.. either the person cares about you and dosesn’t want you to be hurt, or the person is a bit selfish. You only have one life to live and why live it worried about other people all the time when whole time they an’t even worried about what chu worried about!!

22. Always have Theraflu on deck

As soon as you feel a cold coming in pop in a packet of theraflu in some water you should be be completley fine two days.

 

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NO MONEY AND NO JOB

Who doesn’t dream of running their own company doing something that they love?

I mean probably only lazy people of course.

We all want the same thing!

Live well off of the fashion line that started out as cute little t-shirts way back when. Well at least thats me!

I dont want to be bossed around by a meanie ab out a dumb juob that I dont care about. I mean honestly.

But at the same time, starting my brand from the ground up is really tough. So actually, scratch that, if I were offered a part time or even full time retail store I would probably take it.

My fiance is also starting his business from the ground up so I mean, you can kind of see how the struggle is real!

It’s cool though!

Because when our businesses take off it will really be nice to look back at this blog post and see how far we have come.

well, if you would, take a look at my youtube video where I touch on this subject a bit.

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Words Left Unsaid

While you’re sitting on your bed, gazing for miles at nothing, thinking about how you feel about your one true love, he is actually  blowing your phone up like hell.

He doesn’t know what is was that set you off during your disagreement last night.

But answer me this.

What is there to gain by not telling him how you felt when he stormed out of the over crowded grocery store last night?

If anything he’ll do it again and think you’re ok with it. Or worse, he’ll think you don’t care.

Then, as the cherries begin to blossom, you’ll wonder why the daily bouquet of flowers stopped arriving at your desk at the firm.

You’ll start to notice how many friday nights he spends with his sexist group of guys and how he hasn’t asked you on a date in over 30 days.

Your days will become crowded with unpleasing and unnecessary  tasks that you begin around your cold and lonely studio. You have to do something to fill all the time that you now have. So why not scrub the kitchen floor with your ghost boyfriends tooth brush with sad country music playing in the background?

When you leave things left unsaid the worst is yet to come.

And the best is yet to leave.

 

 

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Time Doesn’t Love You

screenshot_2017-01-04-15-05-512And as you stand there, on the cold tile floor looking at your immaculate reflection in the misty mirror,  I see your smile slowly start to dissappear as your reflection becomes more clear.

I know what you are thinking.  Another birthday has gone by,  you won’t look as good as me.

Baby I don’t care. The way you smell rocks my world. That’s what attracted me to you in the first place. Had I seen you in my human life I would have admired your perfect jaw line and bone structure. Or maybe the way your curly chocolate hair lays on your broad shoulders.  Oh I could go on.  My point is,  all i am really attracted to,  besides your wonderful personality of course is your scent. Of course, if I turn you,  there will be no reason to love you.

I’m tired of seeing perfect looking 200year Olds.  I think crows feet at the corners of the eyes are super hot.  I want you to have wrinkles.

Can’t you see? Time isn’t on your side baby but I am.

I will never leave you. Your human life is something that is so beautiful and sweet to me. I cherish it. You are literally my human other half.  You’re everything I am not. If you think I will be come less attracted to you as the decades go by then think again. I can’t wait to be by your side when life throws you lemons. All I have to do is Suck the sour juice out and your pain is forever gone. So,  for me baby,  please don’t make me turn you.

Do You Like Me Yet?

With every Photo I post, I make sure I look my best for you. There’s a bunch of other girls that look like they have it all together but me, I’m not so sure. I still make do with what I do have. I’m here so I can be noticed, so that I can somehow build my self-esteem. Without realizing it I compare myself to other girls that are here. Trying to be the level of beauty that they are knowing that I’ll never be. All the while I’m still trying to impress you and you’re not even real a person. You’re just Instagram. You’re just an app on millions of people’s phones that take up time and Advertise a false beautiful lifestyle and with knowledge of this I still try to impress you and or all the people that use you. Well not anymore. I’m going to use you as a networking tool. I know that I’m pretty and I know that I’m worth much more than 1 million likes but hey that would be nice actually. So hey if you’re still reading this go ahead and follow my Instagram below. 

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